Laura Rath ~ Journey in Faith

Fear of the Lord

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Welcome! If you’re studying An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbell with us, we’re in Chapter 9 this week, “The RightKind of Fear.” This chapter had me looking for some clarity on the word “fear.”Here’s what I learned…

When we think of fear, weusually think of the everyday common meaning of the word.

Fear – (v) to be afraid ofsomething, (n) something that causes feelings of dread or apprehension; adistressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether thethreat is real or imagined. (Dictionary.com)

My NLT study Bible, as wellas Dictionary.com have another definition.

Fear – profound reverence andawe of God. Synonyms: honor, respect, to stand in awe of.

When I think of fear beingawe and respect for God, I get a clearer understanding of Scripture.

Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true wisdom.
All who obey his commandments will grow in wisdom.
Praise him forever! (Psalm 111:10 NLT)

In this verse, fear of theLord isn’t shaking in my boots fear, it’s sincere respect and honor for God andHis Word. The more time I spend with God, the better I get to know Him, and themore understanding I receive of His Word.

Wisdom is more than just knowingfacts or knowing what the Bible says. Wisdom is asking God for understanding,listening to the Holy Spirit’s leading, and making good decisions based on whatwe know to be true and the insight God gives us.

Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true wisdom.
All who obey his commandments will grow in wisdom.

Now when I read this, Iunderstand it differently.

Respect and honor for God ourFather is the foundation for understanding and discerning Scripture. The more Igrow to know Him, the more I desire to be obedient to Him, as He takes me deeperinto His Word and guides me in wisdom.

What are your thoughts onfear, wisdom and obedience?

God Bless,

Laura
Linking up with On Your Heart Tuesdays, Women Living Well Wednesdays, and Winsome Wednesday.

He Makes a Way {Something to Think About}

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But forget all that—
it is nothing compared to what I am going to do.
For I am about to do something new.
See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?
I will make a pathway through the wilderness.
I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.

(Isaiah 43:18-19 NLT)

Do not dwell on the past. God’s already working on thefuture, and there is so much more to come! He will make a way where we see noway. He makes the impossible possible!

God bless you today!

In Christ,

Laura

Linking up today with my friends at Fresh Brewed Sundays, Jumping Tandem, and Sharing His Beauty.

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 9

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Have a great week!
Laura

Week 9 – Feb. 26-Mar. 3, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 9 “The Right Kind of Fear.” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Bible Study Questions at the end of the chapter. (These questions can help us go deeper into Scripture and the study, but please don’t get stressed out if you can’t, or don’t want to, answer them all.)

Friday

Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

Jesus is Enough

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If you took a momentto think about one thing that attracts you to Jesus, what would it be? What’sthe first thing that comes to mind?

For me, it’s the factthat when I spend time with Jesus I am the center of His attention. He’s nevertoo busy. He never tells me “just a minute.” He puts me first. And He puts youfirst too.

He always has enoughtime.

Do I make enough timefor Him?

He always has enoughpatience.

Do I have enoughpatience to wait on His plans and His timing?

He always has enoughlove.

Do I have enough lovefor Him that I trust and follow without question?

He always has enoughconcern.

Do I have enoughconcern for others?

He always has enoughgrace.

Do I have enough graceto extend to His children?

No, I don’t have enough.I am a work in progress, and only through Him is there hope for me.

But Jesus…He gaveeverything He had for you and for me. He knows what each of us is goingthrough. He knows the pain, disappointment, and despair of living in thisworld.

Jesus has enough…to listen,to comfort, to strengthen, to protect, to guide, and to forgive us. He isenough.

Jesus, who puts mefirst, is enough. He is everything.

What is one thing thatattracts you to Jesus?

In Christ,
Laura

I’m linking up today withBonnie, who offered this writing prompt, at FaithBarista, as well as ThoughtProvoking Thursdays Brag on God Friday, and Spiritual Sundays.

Lay Your Cares at the Foot of the Cross

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Give all your worries and cares to God, for he caresabout you. (1 Peter 5:7 NLT)

Sounds easy, doesn’t it? Ican hand off my worries and cares to God and let Him take them so I can goabout other things.

So, why isn’t it that easy?Why do I find myself still worried and stressed out if all I have to do is givemy cares to God?

I’ve found that giving mycares to God isn’t a one time act. If new fears and worries aren’t surroundingme, I’m trying to take back what I’ve already handed off.

Comfort in Our Troubles {Something to Think About}

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Allpraise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Fatherand the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that wecan comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them thesame comfort God has given us.

(2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NLT)

There is purpose inour trials. Although we may not see it at the time, God can bring good fromanything and everything in our lives. When we experience trouble and receiveGod’s love and comfort, we can then be there for others and share the comfort Godhas given us. He comforts us in our trying times, so we can comfort othersin theirs.

God bless you today!

In Christ,
Laura

Linking up with my friends at Brag on God Friday, Fresh Brewed Sundays, Jumping Tandem, and Sharing His Beauty

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 8

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Have a great week!

Week 8 – Feb. 19-Feb. 25, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 8 “Overcoming the Fear of the Unknown.” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

· Reflect on, and answer, the Bible StudyQuestions at the end of the chapter. (These questions can help us godeeper into Scripture and the study, but please don’t get stressed out if youcan’t, or don’t want to, answer them all.)

Friday

· Spend time in prayer and reflecting onthis week’s reading.

Vulnerability and Trust

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Trusting someone comes with acertain level of vulnerability. To trust means we rely on someone else to beresponsible, to take care of something or someone we’ve placed in their care. Itleaves us vulnerable to be disappointed if that person doesn’t prove reliable.

The more we get let down, themore hesitant we are to trust again, and that spills over into otherrelationships.

I wonder if this is why wefind it difficult to trust God. Having been burned by others, how do we knowGod is reliable?

Trusting God means we leaveour lives in His hands. We trust Him with those we love and situations we gothrough. We trust that He will guide us to the path He wants us on. Trusting God means we believe He knows what’sbest for us.

So, how do we know God isreliable?

Fear of What Could Happen

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Do you know anyone who always seems to be waiting for something bad to happen? Who lives in fear of the worst case scenario? Maybe this even describes you.

God never said our lives would be easy. Once sin entered the world, the stress-free, problem-free days without trials were over. In fact, Jesus said it bluntly.

Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. (John 16:33 NLT)

We each go through storms in life we wish we didn’t have to face, and each of us reacts and responds differently in the face of trouble.

Jesus told us what to expect (trials and sorrows), but He also told us where to find peace (in Him) and what He’s done (conquered the world.)

What Have You Done?

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Then the Lord God asked the woman, “Whathave you done?” (Genesis3:13 NLT)

I’ve read thisScripture verse many times and always thought about how angry God must havebeen at Adam and Eve. As a parent, I know I would have been angry. I mean,really, the one tree they were told not to eat from is the one they couldn’tresist.

But not long ago Iwas reading this section of Genesis, and I heard something different in God’swords…

To read more of this post,join me at 5 Minutes for Faithtoday where I’m talking about God’s love and care for us…no matter what we’vedone.

I hope you’ll follow me overthere, and if you do, will you leave a comment so I’ll know you stopped by?

Have a blessed day!

In Christ,

Laura

Linking up with Barbie at Fresh Brewed Sundays, Deidra at Jumping Tandem, and Joan at Sharing His Beauty

An Untroubled Heart Online Study Week 7

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Have a great week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 7 – Feb. 12-Feb. 18, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 7 “What’s the Worst That Could Happen?” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

Friday

· Spend time in prayer and reflecting onthis week’s reading.

I Choose to Trust God

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Welcome and thanks for visiting! Ifyou’re studying AnUntroubled Heart by Micca Campbell, we’rein Chapter 6 “Learning to Trust Again” this week. I apologize for being late ingetting my thoughts posted. Thanks for your patience!

“The choice is ours. We can focus on the worries,burdens, and fears of our limited experience and miss the joy that can be oursor, like Joseph, we can take the risk, venture out, and truly believe that Godhas a plan.” ~Micca Campbell, An Untroubled Heart

Which choice do you make?

I know which choice I want tomake. I want to trust God so completely that I don’t worry about theday-to-day, and I don’t get down when life isn’t going smoothly.

He Gives Me Strength {Something to Think About}

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As soon as I pray, youanswer me; you encourage me by giving me strength. (Psalm 138:3 NLT)

Howcomforting to know that as I wait on the Lord, He gives me all the strength Ineed for the wait.

God blessyour day!

InChrist,
Laura

Linking up with:

Fresh Brewed Sundays

Sunday Jumping Tandem
Sharing His Beauty

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 6

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Welcome! If you're reading An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbell with me, what do you think so far? Is there one point that stands out for you? Below is the suggested reading schedule for this week.

God Bless,
Laura

Week 6 – Feb. 5-Feb. 11, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 6 “Learning to Trust Again.” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

Friday
· Spend time in prayer and reflecting onthis week’s reading.

Trust in God Sustains Me

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Have you heard about OneWord 2012? It’schoosing one word to focus on throughout the year—making the effort to keepthat focus in front of you every day. My word for 2012 is Trust—completeand unquestionable trust in God.

As I focus on trustingGod in all things, I want to spend more time in Scripture looking specificallyat verses on trust. And I’d also like to share them here with you.

Today I’m looking atJeremiah 17:5-8 (NLT)…

Scripture for Direction, Fear, Strength, and Comfort

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Welcome and thanks for stopping by!

In Chapter 5 of An Untroubled Heart, author MiccaCampbell mentions several Scripture verses she turns to for guidance anddirection in different matters regarding her family and home.

I thought about the verses Ioften turn to for…

Direction

Commiteverything you do to the LORD.
Trust him, and he will help you. ~Psalm37:5 (NLT)

The LORD directsthe steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the LORD holds them by the hand. ~Psalm37:23-24 (NLT)

Fear

Do not be afraidor discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be withyou; he will neither fail you nor abandon you. ~ Deuteronomy 31:8 (NLT)

Don’t be afraid,for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand. ~ Isaiah 41:1 (NLT)

Strength

But those whotrust in the LORD will find new strength.
They will soar high on wings like eagles.
They will run and not grow weary.
They will walk and not faint. ~ Isaiah40:31 (NLT)

For I can doeverything through Christ, who gives me strength. ~ Philippians 4:13 (NLT)

Comfort

When you're inover your head, I'll be there with you.
When you're in rough waters, you will not go down.When you're between a rock and a hard place, it won't be a dead end— ~ Isaiah 43:2(The Message)

God is ourmerciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all ourtroubles so that we can comfort others. ~2 Corinthians 1:3b-4a (NLT)

What verses do you turn to?Will you share one by leaving a comment?

In Christ,
Laura

Linking up with Women Living Well Wednesdays and Word-Filled Wednesday.

Psalm 5:11-12 {Something to Think About}

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But let all who take refuge in you rejoice;
let them sing joyful praises forever.
Spread your protection over them,
that all who love your name may be filled with joy.
For you bless the godly, O Lord;
you surround them with your shield of love.

Psalm 5:11-12 (NLT)

Refuge…Protection…Joy…

Surrounded with a shield of God’s love.

I found comfort in these verses today.

Perhaps they will bless your day as well.

In Christ,

Laura

I'm linking up today with Barbie at Fresh Brewed Sundays, Deidra at Sunday Jumping Tandem, and Joan at Sharing His Beauty.

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 5

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Have a great week!

Week 5 – Jan. 29-Feb. 4, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 5 “Family Matters.” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Bible Study Questions at the end of the chapter. (These questions can help us go deeper into Scripture and the study, but please don’t get stressed out if you can’t, or don’t want to, answer them all.)

Friday

· Spendtime in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading. Which Scriptureverses do you rely on for guidance?

My One Word for 2012 – Trust

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"Do you trust Me?"

For thepast year I’ve felt God asking me if I trust Him. I thought I did. And yet whenI don’t understand, I question and doubt. I know my faith and trust in Him havegrown, but I still have so far to go. So, I continue to work on trustingHim.

I trustedHim as He led me outside of my comfort zone. Now I look back and know that Henever left me, but continued to guide me all along. By following Him I havebeen blessed. I have proof that I can trust Him. I shouldn’t needed proof, butHe graces me with it anyway.

I know Hewill continue to lead and bless me. As long as I trust Him. So that is myfocus—complete and unhesitant trust in God.

When Idoubt and worry sets in, I will trust Him.

When I don’t understand, I will trust Him.

When I am afraid, I will trust Him.

When I don’t feel His presence, I will trust Him.

When the storms of life whip around me, I will trust Him.

And when it’s calm again, I will trust Him.

Trustin the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
(Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV)

InChrist,

Laura

Linking up with: Stefanie at My One Word Wednesday and Ann at Walk With Him Wednesdays.

God’s Loving Character

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Welcome! If you’re reading An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbellwith me, I’m in Chapter 4. If you’re not studying this book, please know thatyou are welcome to read any posts that interest you. And stay as long as youlike!

Psalm 23 from the New King JamesVersion (NKJV) is printed in Chapter 4 of AnUntroubled Heart. I’m familiar with Psalm 23 so I didn’t notice whatversion it was quoted from; I was more focused on the points made in thechapter.

However, when I read Psalm 23 from myNew Living Translation Bible, I immediately noticed the difference in how itreads. I’d like to share it with you…

Psalm 23 (New Living Translation)

TheLORD is my shepherd;
I have all that I need.
Helets me rest in green meadows;
he leads me beside peaceful streams.
He renews my strength.
Heguides me along right paths,
bringing honor to his name.

Evenwhen I walk
through the darkest valley,
I will not be afraid,
for you are close beside me.
Your rod and your staff
protect and comfort me.

Youprepare a feast for me
in the presence of my enemies.
You honor me by anointing my head with oil.
My cup overflows with blessings.

Surelyyour goodness and unfailing love will pursue me
all the days of my life,
and I will live in the house of the LORD
forever.

I don’t know about you, but I findthese words give me comfort and a greater understanding of God’s character.

Allow me to pull out some of theparts that struck me…

He lets me rest; He leads meand renews my strength. He stays close beside me to protect and comfort me. He will pursue and stay with me forever.

So, I wonder, in God’s lovingcharacter, why would He leave anything in our lives to chance or coincidence? Idon’t believe He does.

Over the past few years, I havestopped attributing anything to coincidence. I don’t believe things happen throughluck or by coincidence. But what I do believe is that, from small insignificantthings to life-changing events, God works things together for the good of thosewho love Him. (Romans 8:28)

God wants to be involved in everypart of our lives. We shouldn’t feel like we cannot ask Him for His provision,or that we need to figure something out on our own. He wants us to turn to Himand let Him provide for us. God knows what we want and what we need, and Heknows what is best for us.

This doesn’t mean life will always bebliss. Life this side of Heaven will never be without struggles and trials, butHe will be there with us. God knows what we can handle on our own and how muchmore we can deal with through His love, strength, and guidance. No matter howdark the valley we must go through, we don’t need to go through it alone—for Hegives us His Word that He will be close beside us, guiding us through each day.

InChrist,
Laura

Linking up with: On Your Heart Tuesdays, Women Living Well Wednesdays, Grace Cafe, Word Filled Wednesday, Thought Provoking Thursday, Brag on God Friday, and Spiritual Sundays.

New Every Morning {Something to Think About}

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Because of the Lord’sgreat love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. (Lamentations 3:22-23 NIV)

Was yesterday a bad day? Maybeit was a bad week? We can breathe a sigh of relief because one day doesn’t haveto define our next day.

Thanks to God’s unendingmercy, each day is a fresh start!

I’m linking up with Barbie at Fresh Brewed Sundays, Deidra at Sunday Jumping Tandem, and Joan at Sharing HisBeauty today.

Have a great week!

In Christ,

Laura

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 4

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Thanks for stopping by! Here is this week's reading schedule for our An Untroubled Heart (by Micca Campbell) online study. Whether you're reading the book or not, feel free to look around, read past posts, and come back any time! Have a great week!

In Christ,

Laura

Week 4 – Jan. 22-28, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Chapter 4 “The Pressure’s On.” Underline or take notes on points you want to remember or go back to.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts.

Wednesday& Thursday

Friday

· Spend time in prayer and reflecting onthis week’s reading. It’s also a good catch-up day if you’ve fallenbehind.

Where Do You Put Your Faith?

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“People say all the time, ‘Justbelieve. Just have faith.’ I want to ask, ‘Believe what? Have faith in what?’Those are very important questions, because just believing is a faulty methodfor overcoming fear.”(Micca Campbell, An Untroubled Heart)

So…where doyou put your faith?

Do you putyour faith in yourself? Others? Fate? Luck? Or maybe a little of each for goodmeasure? When we place our faith in any of these we set ourselves on unstableground.

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 3

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Welcome and thanks for visiting today! If you're reading An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbell with me, you'll find this week's reading schedule below. You may also be interested in reading a devotion by Micca at Proverbs 31 Ministries...Learning to Trust Again.
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Trust and Peace ~ Isaiah 26:3

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You will keep in perfect peace all who trustin you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you! (Isaiah 26:3 NLT)

Trust God in all things.

Let Him quiet our fears andanxieties, and give us peace.

Focus our thoughts on Jesus.

He knows the way we shouldgo.

Fix our minds on Jesus.

Focus on Him instead of ourtroubles.

May we all put our trust inHim and feel His peace this week. Thanks for visiting!

I’m linking up with Fresh Brewed Sunday and Sharing His Beauty today.

In Christ,
Laura

Fear

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Fear is a sneaky emotion. Sometimes it alerts us to real danger andsaves us from something happening. So many other times, though, it comes uponus suddenly and without just cause. It wraps itself around our insides and robsus of our peace, makes us worry, and causes health issues.

We fear the what-ifs…What if this happens, what will I do? And at thesame time, we fear the opposite…What if that doesn’t happen, then what?

Most of what we worry about doesn’t happen, but we’ve put ourselvesthrough the fear of it anyway. And when something does happen? Worrying aboutit hasn’t prevented it, it’s only made us live through it twice.

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 2

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Welcome and thanks for visiting! It's been a busy and exciting week. We now have 40 women signed up to study An Untroubled Heart! I've loved watching God bring our group together - from 17 U.S. states, plus Canada and Northern Ireland! Thank you for joining me in this!

Below you will find this week's reading schedule.
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Joy and Happiness

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A few more thoughts on Chapter One of An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbell, and also linking up with Fresh Brewed Sunday...

One of the studyquestions in Chapter One focuses on James 1:2-4…

Dear brothers andsisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance togrow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will beperfect and complete, needing nothing. (James 1:2-4 NLT)

My natural question is– How can I be happy when trouble comes my way? Whether through my own actionsor those of another, how can I be joyful through unemployment, illness, loss ofa loved one, divorce, and so many other issues we deal with today?

I have spent quite abit of time thinking about joy and happiness over the past couple of years, andI think it comes down to this... Joy and happiness are not the same.

Joy comes from knowingthe Lord and having a personal relationship with Him. Joy is not dependent onour circumstances or the people in our life. It is the deep feeling ofcontentment in knowing Christ walks beside us every day – through trials,disappointments, and sorrows.

Happiness is dependenton others and life around us. Happiness can be temporary. When things are goingwell, I feel happy. When life throws me a curve ball, my happiness turns todisappointment, frustration, anger, and sadness.

Life changingsituations that cause me unhappiness are the very times my faith andrelationship with God can grow deeper and stronger through my dependence onHim.

I can be happy andjoyful at the same time, but when something or someone makes me unhappy in myeveryday life, my joy still comes from knowing God won’t ever leave me. Hislove and desire for a relationship with me is forever, no matter what. He staysand gets me through the unhappiness. He can use any situation, happy orotherwise, to prepare me for what He has planned for my future. The knowledgethat God wants to refine me and prepare me for the future brings me joy andhope.

Always be full of joyin the Lord. I say it again—rejoice!(Paul in Philippians 4:4)

In Christ,

Laura

Teaching Through My Imperfectness {5 Minutes for Faith}

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Welcome! I’m posting over at 5 Minutes for Faith today…

“As a mother, I’veobserved how my daughter watches me. In some cases, I think she learns more bywatching what I do than by listening to what I say.

As a child of God, Iwant to be a Godly mother, but as a human, I’m a sinful being. With my flawsand insecurities, I’ve been wondering…what do I want my daughter to learn asshe watches me?"

Will you meet me at 5 Minutes for Faith today to read the rest of my post? If you have aminute, please leave a comment so I know you stopped by!

Have a blessed day!

In Christ,
Laura

God is Always with Us

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Welcome! This week we’re in Chapter One of MiccaCampbell’s An Untroubled Heart.

“Nomatter what our emotions or circumstances may say, the truth is there isnowhere we can go to escape God’s presence. Though it might not feel like it orlook like it, God is always near.” (Micca Campbell, An Untroubled Heart)

Can you relate to this? I certainly can! There are times I can’t feel God’s presence. I know He’s near me, but I feel like I can’tget to Him.

I recently wrote about knowingGod is with me even when I can’t feelit. It fits this chapter and what’s on my mind so well, I’m going to repost it.If you have read it before, I ask your forgiveness for reposting. (I don’t makeit a habit.) However, because I often benefit from rereading my own posts, I’dlike to ask you to also reread it.

I Know He’s With Me

by Laura Rath

Sometimes I can’t feel God’s presence…but I know He’s there.

Usually it’s when I’ve hit a feeling of despair…a situationisn’t going well…I’m tired, stressed, or angry…life isn’t going the way I hopedor wanted…and I can’t feel His presence.

But I know He’s there. And sometimes knowing instead of feelinghas to be enough.

Those moments of despair are times I can either grow closerand more dependent on God, or turn away from Him. The enemy would love to watchus turn away. He wants us to question God’s love for us, and the enemy knowsthat in our times of desperation, we are most vulnerable. We are wounded and susceptible to his lies.

That is when I have to rely on what I know, and not on what I feel.I may feel alone, but I know God iswith me. When I cry out to Him, I may not hear an answer, but I know He is there.

God’s Word says…

“This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not beafraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Hewill neither fail you nor abandon you.” (Joshua 1:9, Deuteronomy 31:6, 8 NLT)

When I get to those times of crying out, “Where are you,God?!?” I know He’s there, but I long to see and feel Him. Sometimes He answersright away, through a feeling, a Scripture verse, or something that calms medown. But other times, I have to wait…patiently.

Because I know God is there and hasn’t left me, I continueto pray and talk to Him. I must keep myself in God’s Word, trusting in Hispromises. And I look back at times God showed Himself to me—in His time and Hisway.

The waiting is not easy, but knowing He’s there helps me wait until I feel it again. The momentsof desperation are often when my faith and trust in God can grow the most.

However, I can’t wait only for the times of despair to turnto Him. I must be in His Word at all times or I won’t be prepared for the toughtimes.

Every school practices fire drills. Why? So that if thereever is a fire, the children know what to do. In an emergency, panic canimmobilize us, especially if we are not prepared and don’t know where to go.

When I get to a low point and I can’t feel God’s presence,panic can be immobilizing. It helps greatly if I already know where to go—God’sWord. I start with Scripture verses that are my favorites or have brought mecomfort in the past. Then I’ll often let myself continue to read wherever I amin the Bible, and that’s how I find new verses that help me wait on God andbring me peace. I believe He guides us to those verses, knowing what we need tohear from His Word.

There are other things we can do to keep us turned towardGod when we are waiting to feel His presence:

- Know that He is there!

- Continue to pray.

- Stay in God’s Word.

- Write out favorite Scripture verses to keep with you atall times.

- Remember other times when you have seen God’s work in yourlife, remembering that He knows what’s best for us.

- Listen to Christian music.

- Talk with friends or other people who are like-minded inChrist.

- Get enough rest. (Being overtired is sure to affect mythoughts and feelings when things are already not going well.)

Do you have others to add to this list? Please share byleaving a comment.

In Christ,
Laura

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 1

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Welcome and thanks for visiting!

If you are participating in the online study of An Untroubled Heart by Micca Campbell, I'm so glad to have you join us! We have 24 women from 13 states signed up for this study. If you haven't signed up and would like to, it's not too late. Just email me at laurajrath@gmail.com with your name, email address, city and state.

Below you will find the suggested reading schedule for week 1 of the study. Feel free to follow the schedule or go at your own pace. The posts for each week will remain on my blog, so you can read or reread at any time.

Feel free to email me with any questions, and leave a comment on any blog post so I know you stopped by!

Blessings on the New Year!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 1 – Jan. 1-7, 2012

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Introduction and Chapter 1 “When the Unthinkable Happens.” Underline or highlight points to remember or go back to, or use a journal to record notes and your thoughts.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post, and leave a comment with your thoughts. (I try to post on Tuesday, but sometimes it’s not until Wednesday.)

Wednesday & Thursday

· Reflect on, and answer, the Bible Study Questions at the end of the chapter. (These questions help us go deeper into Scripture and the study, but don’t get stressed out if you can’t, or don’t want to, answer them all.)

Friday

· Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading. This can also be a catch-up day, if needed.

Focus on Jesus {Something to Think About}

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Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began andfinished this race we're in. (Hebrews 12:2 The Message)

Aswe begin a new year, where is your focus? Remember Peter? He stepped out of theboat, focused on Jesus, and walked on water. When he panicked and took hisfocus off of Jesus, he sank.

Whatwill 2012 be like if we look to Jesus before anyone or anything else? Will youturn to Jesus for guidance? For strength? For comfort? Will you ask yourselfeach day, “Where is my focus?

I'm linking up with Fresh Brewed Sunday and Thought Provoking Thursday!

InChrist,

Laura

My Top Ten Scripture Verses of 2011

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Every year betweenChristmas and New Year’s, I see Top Ten lists—some to recap the year and someto start the next year. I’ve never written one before, but decided to give it atry.

Of these ten Scriptureverses, some are favorites I turn to often and others are verses that took onnew meaning for me throughout 2011. They are all special to me, so they arelisted in no particular order, except as they are in Bible. (All verses are fromthe New Living Translation.)

1) Deuteronomy 31:8

Donot be afraid or discouraged, for the Lordwill personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail younor abandon you.

2) Proverbs 3:5-6

Trustin the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seekhis will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.

3) Isaiah 40:31

Butthose who trust in the Lord willfind new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run andnot grow weary. They will walk and not faint.

4) Isaiah 43:2

Whenyou go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers ofdifficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, youwill not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.

5) Jeremiah 17:7-8

Butblessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope andconfidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots thatreach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worriedby long months of drought. Their leaves stay green, and they never stopproducing fruit.

6) Jeremiah 29:11

“ForI know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good andnot for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”

7) Matthew 11:28

ThenJesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, andI will give you rest.”

8) Matthew 14:31

Jesusimmediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesussaid. “Why did you doubt me?”

9) Romans 8:28

Andwe know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those wholove God and are called according to his purpose for them.

10) Hebrews 11:1

Faithis the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assuranceabout things we cannot see.

Do you have a specialScripture verse that speaks to you? As you read God’s Word, allow yourself tobe open to God’s leading. He speaks to us through Scripture, and leads us towhat we need to hear at the perfect time when we need to hear it.

May God bless you as weenter into 2012!

I'm linking up today with Top Ten Tuesday, Women Living Well Wednesdays, Word Filled Wednesday, and Grace Cafe.

In Christ,

Laura

Merry Christmas!

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That night therewere shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep.Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of theLord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, but the angel reassuredthem.

“Don’tbe afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to allpeople. The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! And you will recognize him by thissign: You will find a baby wrapped snugly in strips of cloth, lying in amanger.”

Suddenly, the angelwas joined by a vast host of others—the armies of heaven—praising God andsaying,

“Gloryto God in highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God ispleased.” (Luke 2:8-15 NLT)

Merry Christmas! Thanks be toGod for the greatest gift we could ever receive—Immanuel, God with us!

If you’ve joined me in anonline Bible study this year or been a visitor to my blog—I thank you! Nomatter what your plans may be, I pray you have a blessed Christmas!

I hope you’ll join me againas we start the New Year with a new online study of AnUntroubled Heart by Micca Campbell.

In Christ,
Laura

God’s Ways Are Not Our Own {5 Minutes for Faith}

2011-12-17T23:52:00.000-06:00

I am excited to be at 5 Minutes for Faith today talking about faith and God’s promises. Here is an excerpt of what I wrote:

I want to have that unwavering confidence that God hears my prayers and keeps His promises. The Bible says I can—through faith.

“Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see.” Hebrews 11:1 NLT

When we look back at how God has kept His promises in the past, we see that He has proven Himself time and time again.

Please stop by 5 Minutes for Faith today to read the rest of my post. If you have a minute, leave a comment so I know you stopped by!

Have a blessed day!

In Christ,
Laura

Rest {Something to Think About}

2011-12-17T22:54:00.001-06:00

It’s been a long week and my emotions are getting the better of me. I’m tired—physically, and yes, emotionally. I’ve been searching Scripture for my favorite verses that meet me where I am and pick me up. I keep coming back to one I’ve clung to so many times before.

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28 NLT)

Life seems harder when I’m drained. I need the Spiritual and physical rest Jesus gives.

What Scripture verse do you turn to when you need recharged?

I'm linking up today with Fresh Brewed Sunday and Grace Cafe.

In Christ,

Laura

Pray for the Future

2011-12-16T05:35:00.001-06:00

Praythat you would accept the situation. Pray for strength to get through thesituation. Pray for the future.

To me, it feels like if I accept anunpleasant situation, it’s final. Maybe it’s a doctor’s diagnosis, a rebelliouschild, an empty marriage, or another situation I never thought I’d be in. If Iaccept it, is this the way it will be for the rest of my life? Sometimes itfeels like it. But is it?

It was God’s will for Jesus to go to thecross for sins that were none of His own. While He didn’t spare Him from thesituation, He did send an angel from heaven to strengthen Him. Jesus acceptedthe situation and was crucified for our sins. But we know that’s not the end ofthe story. Accepting the situation did not mean it was final.

“But very early on Sunday morning thewomen went to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared. They found thatthe stone had been rolled away from the entrance. So they went in, but theydidn’t find the body of the Lord Jesus. As they stood there puzzled, two mensuddenly appeared to them, clothed in dazzling robes.

The women were terrified and bowed withtheir faces to the ground. Then the men asked, ‘Why are you looking among thedead for someone who is alive? He isn’t here! He is risen from the dead!Remember what he told you back in Galilee, that the Son of Man must be betrayedinto the hands of sinful men and be crucified, and that he would rise again onthe third day.’” (Luke24:1-7 NLT)

Jesus rose from the dead and now sits atthe right hand of God the Father, just as it was foretold. God had a plan, andHis plan came to pass, just as He said it would. God has a plan today—for youand for me. Though He may take us through circumstances we don’t want to be in,He doesn’t just leave us there. He promises to always be with us.

Through prayer, God will help us accept asituation we don’t want to be in. If it’s not His will to take us out of thesituation, He will strengthen us to walk through it. And if He allows us to gothrough it, that doesn’t mean it’s forever, even if it feels like it.

This is part three of a three-part series.

PartOne – Pray for Acceptance

Part Two—Prayfor Strength

In Christ,
Laura

Pray for Strength

2011-12-14T03:00:00.000-06:00

Praythat you would accept the situation. Pray for strength to get through thesituation.

There are situations in life we simply donot want to experience—illness, unemployment, divorce, and so many others.Often times, God will spare us from these situations. Other times, He willallow us to go through them…but He doesn’t require that we tread through themalone. He promises to walk the road of life with us. After praying to acceptthe situation, we can pray for strength to get through it. Jesus did.

When Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane, He asked God if there wasanother way, but prayed for God’s will over His own.

“‘Father, if you are willing, please takethis cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.’Then an angel from heaven appeared and strengthened him.” (Luke 22:42-43 NLT)

Jesus accepted that the situation wasGod’s will, but God didn’t let Jesus go through it without help. He sent anangel to strengthen Jesus for what was to come.

I need God’s help to accept a situation Idon’t want to go through. I also need His strength. I can’t do it on my own,but trust in God and prayer will give me the strength to face the situation.Like He did for Jesus, God will also strengthen us for what is to come.

A situation I don’t understand and can’tcontrol feels impossible to get through. Some days I am depleted of strengthand energy. If I rely on myself, there is none to be found. But God never tiresand never grows weak.

One of my favorite passages is found inthe book of Isaiah.

“The Lord is the everlasting God, theCreator of all the earth. He never grows weak or weary. No one can measure thedepths of his understanding. He gives power to the weak and strength to thepowerless. But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They willsoar high on wings like eagles. The will run and not grow weary. They will walkand not faint.” (Isaiah40:28b-29; 31 NLT)

The strength we need to endure asituation comes not from ourselves, but from the Lord. He has an abundantsupply and wants to share it with us. Through our dependence on Him, we arestrengthened.

This is a three-part series. Part One –Pray for Acceptance. On Friday…Part Three—Pray for the Future.

In Christ,
Laura

Pray for Acceptance

2011-12-12T03:00:00.000-06:00

Pray that you would accept the situation.

I recently heard these words in a sermon and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about them. Pray that I would accept the situation? Doesn’t whether or not I want to accept the situation depend on the situation? For example, a good health report, a new job or the promotion I wanted, a secure and happy marriage—those are acceptable situations. But cancer, loss of a job, divorce, death of a loved one—those situations are harder to accept. I don’t want to accept them.

I decided to look up the definition of the word accept.

accept – to take or receive, to receive with approval, to tolerate or accommodate oneself to. (Dictionary.com)

accept – to receive willingly (NLT Study Bible, Tyndale)

I don’t know if I can willingly accept something I don’t want or something I know will be painful or final. On second thought, I know I can’t. Not on my own. I need God’s help.

When Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane, He asked God if there was another way…

“‘Abba, Father,’ he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.’” (Mark 14:36 NLT)

“Then Jesus left them a second time and prayed, ‘My Father! If this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will be done.’” (Matt. 26:42 NLT)

Each time, Jesus expressed His feelings to God, but God’s will was of most importance to Him. Jesus accepted the situation and did what He had to do.

God will always listen to us. He wants us to express our fears, disappointments, and confusion. Sometimes He will change our circumstances, and sometimes, He will change us instead.

Accepting a situation doesn’t mean pretending I’m happy about it, but maybe it frees me from the anger, hurt, and resentment I feel. Especially if I’m feeling this way towards God, accepting it allows me to move on with what I have to do. Accepting it enables me to receive God’s guidance and His help in getting through the situation.

This is Part One in a three-part series. Stop back on Wednesday for Part Two—Pray for Strength.

In Christ,
Laura

For Such a Time as This {Something to Think About}

2011-12-11T03:00:00.000-06:00

“…And whoknows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?” (Esther 4:14 NIV)

I don’t know many peoplepondering their royal position, but I do know some, including myself, whowonder “What’s going on here?!?” Why do I have to be involved in thissituation? Why is everything around me changing? Why can’t someone else takecare of this?

Like Esther, sometimes Godleads us to a place we don’t want to be in. We’d rather stay where we arecomfortable, doing things our own way. We can resist and drag our heels, oreven refuse by continuing on our own path. But what will we miss? What if Godwants to use us in His work and we refuse the opportunity? We may never know whyor see the outcome of His plan, but what if God is moving us to a place forsuch a time as this?

I’m linking up today with Fresh Brewed Sundays. Please visit again tomorrow when I begin a three-part series onacceptance. On Monday, I’ll post Part 1—Pray for Acceptance.

In Christ,

Laura

The Woman of God I Want to Be

2011-11-28T06:49:00.000-06:00

Welcome! This week we’re in chapter 11of Renee Swope’s AConfident Heart. Have you thought aboutthe woman you want to be? The woman God wants you to be?

As a woman of God, I want to…

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 10

2011-11-27T03:00:00.000-06:00

Welcome! If you've been studying Renee Swope's AConfident Heart with me, I pray you've enjoyed the reading and have seenGod at work in your life.

This week we wrap up the study with the last two chapters.
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I Am Thankful for...

2011-11-21T06:23:00.001-06:00

With Thanksgiving approaching,I decided I should write about what I’m thankful for. I figured it would bepredictable…family, friends, home, job…and don’t get me wrong, I am trulythankful for these.

However, at the end of along, exhausting week, that ended with an afternoon of disappointment inmyself, different thoughts took hold, and a new list emerged.

A Confident Heart Online Study - Thanksgiving Week

2011-11-20T04:00:00.000-06:00

Welcome! If you’re studyingRenee Swope’s A Confident Heart with me, we’re going to take abreak in the reading schedule this week for Thanksgiving.

If you have time and need tocatch up on the reading, this would be a great week to do so. Also, feel freeto read ahead. Next week, we’ll finish the last two chapters of A Confident Heart.

Although it won’t be relatedto the reading, I still plan to post here on my blog this week. I hope you’llstop by again!

Happy Thanksgiving!

In Christ,

Laura

I Know He’s With Me

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Sometimes I can’t feel God’spresence…but I know He’s there.

Usually it’s when I’ve hit afeeling of despair…a situation isn’t going well…I’m tired, stressed, orangry…life isn’t going the way I hoped or wanted…and I can’t feel His presence.

But I know He’s there. Andsometimes knowing instead of feeling has to be enough.

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 9

2011-11-13T03:30:00.000-06:00

Welcome! If you're studying Renee Swope's A Confident Heart with me, we're in chapter 10 this week.
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Give Your Worry to God

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Don't fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God's wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It's wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life. Philippians 4:6-7 (The Message)

Years ago, I read a Christian fiction book titled, Becoming Olivia by Roxanne Henke. In it, the main character, Libby, struggles with anxiety, depression, and worry. Through a group therapy session, she learns a technique to get her worrying under control.

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 8

2011-11-06T03:00:00.000-06:00

Welcome and thanks for visiting! This week we're studying chapter 9 in A Confident Heart by Renee Swope.

Have a great week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 8 – Nov. 6-12, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 9 “When Doubt Whispers ‘I Can’t Stop Worrying.” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Renee Swope’s Website for a printable copy of Peace-giving Promises.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

Comparisons

2011-11-01T03:30:00.000-05:00

Thank you for visiting my blog today! Ifyou are studying Renee Swope’s book A Confident Heart with me,we are on Chapter 8, “When Doubt Whispers ‘I Don’t Have Anything Special toOffer’” this week.

Comparisons. I hate them, andyet, I can’t stop from making them.

We compare our looks, ourskills, our jobs and careers, our families, and what we have or don’t have. Theymake us unhappy and discontent because something else looks better.

Comparisons lead to feelingsof insecurity and depression, and feeling like we have to keep up with someoneelse to be as good as that person. Comparisons can make us judgmental and jealous,even causing us to not like someone we don’t even know.

Comparisons can be madequickly, often before I even realize I’m doing it, and just as quickly, I losemy focus. Instead of appreciating what God has blessed me with, I focus on whatI don’t have.

Recently, I heard a breastcancer survivor speak. When her story had been told, there was not a dry eye inthe room. I’m ashamed to admit that I walked away feeling sorry for myself. Shedescribed the incredible support she had as she went through her ordeal, andall I could think of was how little support I was convinced I’d have if it wasme.

The feeling lasted as I leftand drove home. But once home, I was convicted. I realized I was focused onwhat I thought I didn’t have, in a situation I wasn’t in! Even more ridiculous,was that I had forgotten how blessed I was.

Earlier in the year, I had myannual mammogram and was stunned when I received a call that I needed anotherone. The x-ray showed an area that could be something, or could be nothing, buta more detailed mammogram was needed to find out. It was scheduled for thefollowing morning and within an hour, it was confirmed that it was nothing.

As I compared myself to thespeaker that day, I lost my focus. How could I worry about something thatwasn’t happening to me, while forgetting how God had blessed me? Her journeywas not the path I was on. God blessed her with a strong support system andsurvival. God blessed me by not taking me down that road at this time in mylife.

Isn’t that what comparisonsdo? They make us focus on what we don’t have, instead of what we have beenblessed with. They make us look at someone else and think that what we haveisn’t good enough.

Comparisons…the enemy mustlove them. In fact, I wonder if he’s behind the comparisons we so easily make.Recognizing that, can we refuse to take the bait? When we start to compareourselves to someone else, can we see what we’re allowing to happen to ourthoughts, and turn our focus back to Jesus and all that we have been blessedwith?

I’d love to say that sincethat day I don’t compare myself to others, but I can’t. It’s a daily struggleto not look at someone else and think…If I had that…If I was like her…If onlymy situation was different…you get the idea. But that’s not how God wants us tothink. He has blessed each of us in different ways—ways only He knows fit intoHis plans for our lives.

We each have a differentjourney to take in this life, and yes, some seem much more difficult thanothers. But in each journey, God has a plan…and it is a plan for good, to giveus a future and a hope. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 7

2011-10-30T03:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome to week 7 in our online study of A Confident Heart by Renee Swope. It's hard to believe we're already more than half way though the study.

So, what has stuck with you so far through this study? A Scripture verse that's become a favorite? Something you've learned about yourself? A person or story from the Bible that has taken on new meaning for you? Please leave a comment sometime this week to share.

This past week I've been guest blogging for Gloria Dei Lutheran Church. I'd love to have you stop by!
When an Injury Changes our Path in Life
Coming Back from Our Mistakes

Have a great week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 7 – Oct. 30-Nov. 5, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 8 “When Doubt Whispers ‘I Don’t Have Anything to Offer.” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at http://www.laurarath.blogspot.com/ for the weekly post.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Renee Swope’s Website for the Spiritual Gift Assessement.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

Failing Does Not Mean I’m a Failure

2011-10-25T04:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome! This week we’re studyingChapter 7, “When Doubt Whispers ‘I’m Such a Failure’” in A Confident Heart by Renee Swope.

What do we dowhen we’ve failed, whether it’s through our own doing, or maybe throughcircumstances caused by another’s actions?

As author, ReneeSwope, points out, Jesus knew his disciple Peter would fail him. But Jesus sawsomething Peter probably didn’t know about himself—Jesus saw Peter’s faith andhis potential. Jesus saw not only who Peter was, but who Peter would become.

Jesus sees thesame in us. He knows we’re going to fail at times. He also knows the times wefail are opportunities for growth, in our faith, and in who we are becoming.

So, what can wedo when we’ve failed? We can ask Him to help us get back up on our feet, toshow us what we need learn, and how we can move forward.

Sometimes Iwonder if God sees me as a child who has to learn the lesson for myself. HisWord tells me right from wrong, but I do what's wrong anyway. Then I have to face theconsequences of my actions, and learn my lesson the hard way. Much like a youngchild who doesn’t believe when told the stove is hot, but who touches itanyway. I have to find out for myself.

Satanlikes our stubbornness and when we fail. He condemns us and wants us constantly feeling guilty.Like rubbing salt in a wound, he reminds us of our failures, and wants us tobelieve that we can do no better.

But that’s a lie.Just as Jesus saw Peter’s potential, He sees ours.

Jesus loves us somuch—He’ll meet us where we are. But He loves us too much to leave us there. Heconvicts us of our sin, and shows us the way out. He knows our heart andblesses us with His forgiveness.

When we fail, dowe forgive ourselves or do we carry the guilt and shame around like baggage?When God forgives, He chooses to remember our sins no more. (Jeremiah 31:34)When God forgives us, we need to forgive ourselves. If that’s something westruggle with, we need to ask Him for help. Forgiveness draws us closer to God,and allows us to move forward.

There is a song Iwant to leave you with today. We sang it in worship service this past weekendand these lyrics have stayed with me.

“So take me asYou find me, All my fears and failures, Fill my life again.” (Mighty to Save, written byReuben Morgan and Ben Fielding, performed by Hillsong)

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 6

2011-10-23T03:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome! This week we're on chapter 7 of Renee Swope's A Confident Heart.

Have a blessed week,
Laura

Week 6 – Oct. 23-29, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 7 “When Doubt Whispers ‘I’m Such a Failure.’” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

Controlling Doubt

2011-10-18T21:42:00.000-05:00

Satan is the father of lies(John 8:44) and he’ll do anything to get us to believe his lies. He wields hisway into our lives, working to separate us from God.

“Our enemy knows if he caninfluence the way we think, then our thoughts will determine how we feel, andour feelings will shape how we live.” –Renee Swope, A Confident Heart

I started thinking about thetimes when I felt insecurity and self-doubt building and piling up on top ofitself. Before I knew it, I was trapped under the heap of negative thoughts andinsecurity. It was hard to change my focus and turn to Jesus for the truth.

However, there have also beentimes when I was quick to recognize that my thoughts were not of God. I wasable to see it, turn to Jesus, and stop the enemy in his tracks before itbrought me down that day.

So, what made the difference?Why was I able to recognize it quickly one day, but not the other?

As I pondered this, Iremembered when my daughter broke her arm a few years ago. We were told to stayon top of the pain. As soon as it started to hurt again, she was to let me knowso I could give her pain medicine. If we waited, the pain would get worse, andit would be harder to get control of it.

The days I’m able torecognize right away that the enemy is working on me are the days I’ve been inconstant communication with Jesus. From the moment I wake up, I’m talking toHim.

Before you think I spendhours on my knees in prayer, that’s not what I mean. Yes, I pray throughout theday, but also talk to Him about anything and everything. Whether I’m asking Himwhat our plans are for the day, thanking Him for letting me see Him in some way,or confessing that I don’t know what I’m doing and need His guidance, I try tostick close to Him. With Jesus by my side, I’m able to stay on top of thenegative thoughts and insecurity.

But there are days when Iforget to include Jesus in my day. Without the constant contact with Jesus, Imake myself an easy target for Satan. I’m rushed and busy, and I don’t see theattacks coming. Lies. Self-doubt. Insecurity. It builds up and weighs me down,and before I know it, I’m struggling to get control of it.

Now, it is never too late toturn to Jesus! However, I find it harder to turn my thoughts when I’m alreadyspiraling down in negativity and self-doubt. But when I’m spending my day withJesus, my focus is already on Him. I can react quicker, and I can pray God’spromises before the doubt makes itself at home.

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 5

2011-10-16T04:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome! If you are visiting for the first time, we are studying A Confident Heart by Renee Swope. Feel free to join in at any time!

Have a blessed week!
In Christ,
Laura

Week 5 – Oct. 16-21, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 6 “When Doubt Whispers ‘I’m Not Good Enough.’” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post. Will you share your AM and FM thoughts by leaving a comment? (Remember, you can do so anonymously, if you choose.)

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

Letting Doubt Hold Us Back

2011-10-11T04:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome! If you’re new to my blog, I hope you’ll take alook around, stay as long as you like, and come back often. Currently, we arestudying A Confident Heart by Renee Swope.

I really like the story of Gideon—how he had to focus on Godand depend on God’s strength, instead of his own. I don’t know about you, butI’ve felt that way before, and I’ve prayed…

Lord, I’m not strong enough to face this situation, I needyour strength.

God, I don’t know how to do this, but you do—I need yourguidance.

Lord, I can’t handle this anymore, I need your energy.

I’ve found that when I pray, God does indeed provide what Ineed, maybe for the moment, maybe for longer. When I forge ahead, thinking Ican handle it on my own…well, I can’t. Doubt in myself and insecurity creep inand my confidence is gone.

And therein lies the problem—it’s those times when I’mlooking for my confidence in myself that I lose my way. But when I turn to Godfirst and find my strength and confidence in Him, He guides and directs me onthe path He wants me to be on.

In chapter 5 of AConfident Heart by Renee Swope, Renee asks, “Have you felt paralyzed byuncertainty and allowed it to keep you from walking forward with God in faith?”

When I read this I remembered when I first felt God lead meto start an online Bible study. I almost let doubt keep me from steppingforward in faith. Below is a repost from my blog on June 20, 2011, when I wroteabout my saying no to God.

WhatAlmost Kept Me From Saying Yes to God

by Laura Rath

What almost kept me from saying yes to God? I lost my focus.

Earlier this year, God laid it on my heart to start an onlineBible study. I’d been praying for His guidance, asking Him what I should bedoing, and He answered. My mind raced with ideas and possibilities! But theexcitement soon turned to uneasiness. I didn’t know how to start, and socialmedia was outside of my comfort zone. I wanted confirmation from others, butdidn’t want to tell anyone for fear that I would have to follow through. Themore I thought about it, the less I could see a way it would work. I started todoubt it came from God at all, but instead my over-active imagination.

God gave the direction, but I didn’t ask Him how to getthere. I quickly grew discouraged and decided I wasn’t going to do it.

I asked God for help, received it, and then told Him no.It’s no wonder I felt like I was no longer hearing from Him. It was not a goodplace to be in.

I turned to God in prayer and after pouring out my heart toHim, I felt Him tell me, “Focus on Me.”

I thought of when Jesus walked on water and Peter walkedtoward Him. (Matthew 14:22-33) When Peter’s focus was on Jesus, he could walkon water. But as soon as Peter lost his focus, he began to sink.

It was a clear message that my focus should be on Christ,and not on what was going on around me or what I felt I couldn’t do.

Later that same day I was led to Deuteronomy 31:8: “Do notbe afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He willbe with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.”

I immediately felt is was God’s instruction to me, not onlyfor the online study, but in other areas of my life as well.

God was guiding and directing me…and still one moreincredible thing happened that day.

God led me to an online Bible study though Proverbs 31Ministries. The study was to begin in four days. Although I was on the Proverbs31 Web site often, I had not seen anything about the study until the perfecttiming of that day. God led me to the study of a book that was a blessing in mylife, and He showed me an example of how an online study could work.

What almost kept me from saying yes to God? I took my focusoff of Jesus and I started to sink.

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,
Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 4

2011-10-09T03:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome! If you are studying A Confident Heart by Renee Swope withus, I pray that you are finding comfort in God’s promises!

Below is the suggested schedulefor this week. Please remember to post comments to share how God is working inyour life through this study.

Have a great week!

In Christ,

Laura

Week 4 – Oct. 9-15, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 5 “Living beyond the Shadow of My Doubts.” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post. Leave a comment with your thoughts on the reading, or how you see God working in your life.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend some time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Proverbs 31 Ministries to read Renee Swope’s “Living Beyond the Shadow of My Doubts” devotion.
Visit Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

God Has a Plan for Your Life

2011-10-05T15:23:00.001-05:00

Welcome! This week we’re reading Chapter 4 “God Promises Hope for My Future Despite the Pain of My Past” in Renee Swope’s A Confident Heart.

“We can trust God’s plans aswe realize that His story is being written in ours. His power is perfected inthe broken places we consider to be our greatest weaknesses—our most vulnerableemotions we don’t want anyone to know about.

“What story is God wanting towrite in your life? Will you let Him?” (ReneeSwope, A Confident Heart)

How do you feel when you readthis on page 76 of A Confident Heart,by Renee Swope? When I read it, I have mixed emotions.

I feel hopeful and excited.How incredible that God has me in mind! No matter what my past may be or howI’m struggling in the present, He has plans for my future. Some days that ishard for me to fathom. Being human, I can only comprehend what I know, whatI’ve experienced, and what I can imagine. So, knowing that there is more to mystory than what I’m aware of—that gives me hope for the future, strength forthe present, and comfort for the past.

Jeremiah 29:11 (NLT) says,“‘For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to giveyou a future and a hope.’”

God promises each one of us afuture and a hope. It doesn’t matter that I can’t see it yet, or even imagineit. Faith and trust in our one true God tells me that I don’t have to be ableto see it or understand it. God promises it, and God keeps His promises. That,I can rely on.

I feel humbled and excitedthat God can use me in His Kingdom.

When my daughter was a smallchild, she wanted to help with whatever I was doing. “Can I help? Can I help?”she would ask. And I would find something she could do to help me.

Sometimes I feel like that. Iwant to ask Him, “God, can I help? What can I do?” Of course, God doesn’t needour help, He allows us to help Him. I picture my daughter smiling up at meletting me guide her in the task, and I imagine myself spending time with Goddoing what He’s asked me to do, following His example.

When I read what Renee wroteI feel the desire to persevere. Life is far from easy. We face trials andsituations we would rather not go through. But I find myself wondering how Godwill use those trials in His plans for my future.

We live in a fallen world andwe will continue to work our way though struggles and hardships. God doesn’tpromise that the road of life will be easy, but He does promise to travel itwith us. Through each adversity I believe God refines us, growing us to be morelike Him. My trust and faith in God and His promises are strengthened, and Ifind that the less I struggle against Him, the more I can feel His presence.Knowing that if God brings me to it, He will bring me through it gives me hopefor the future and strength to persevere.

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 3

2011-10-02T03:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome to week 3 of our online study of A Confident Heart by Renee Swope.

As you've been reading, how have you seen God working in your life? Leave a comment to share your thoughts.

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 3 – Oct. 2-8, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 4 “God Promises Hope for My Future Despite the Pain of My Past.” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post. Share your thoughts by leaving a comment to the post.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend some time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart. Consider printing and completing the Promises to Personalize resource.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

When-Then Statements

2011-09-30T03:30:00.000-05:00

In Chapter 3 of A Confident Heart, author Renee Swopewrites about when-then statements as a way to recognize when we’re looking toother people and things for our worth, instead of looking to God.

Earlier this week, I said I’dshare a couple of the when-then statements I wrote.

When I first read about themI didn’t know where to start or what to write about. It was when I didn’t havethe book in front of me and I was feeling anxious and unsettled that I decidedto try it. I acknowledged and wrote in my journal how I was feeling (when) andremembered and claimed God’s promises for me (then). I found the Scriptureverses I was thinking of and wrote them in my journal too.

Each time I did this I feltGod’s calming presence, and my focus shifted from my emotions and the situationback to Him.

Once I tried it, writingwhen-then statements came more naturally. Here are a couple I’d like to share.

When I feel like my world isspinning out of control, then I will thank God that He doesn’t change.

“Iam the Lord, and I do not change.” – Malachi 3:6a NLT

“Whatever is good and perfectcomes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in theheavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow.” – James 1:17 NLT

When I begin to feel that asituation is hopeless, then I will thank God that with Him, nothing isimpossible. Nothing is too hard for the Lord.

“Jesus looked at themintently and said, ‘Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everythingis possible.’” – Matthew 19:26 NLT

“For nothing is impossiblewith God.” – Luke 1:37 NLT

Did you write a statement? Pleaseleave a comment to share.

In Christ,

Laura

Where is Your Treasure?

2011-09-27T04:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome! This week we are in Chapter 3 “Finding Love that Won’t Fail Even When I Do” of our online study of Renee Swope’s A Confident Heart.

“When we worship something or someone, we give them great worth in our lives and oftentimes we find our worth in them. We also set our focus on them and eventually they become the very thing we look toward to fill us.” (Renee Swope, A Confident Heart)

For days I’ve been coming back to this thought and each time I think of Matthew 6:21. I like both of these versions…

“Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will be also.” (NLT)

“The place where your treasure is, is the place you will most want to be, and end up being.” (The Message)

How often do we try to fill our lives with the treasures of this world? Whether we’re looking to people, positions, or things, they can make us happy for a time, but they can’t fill us or bring us everlasting joy like only Christ can.

Knowing this doesn’t always mean it’s easy. In the world today there are so many temptations. We long for the approval of others. We feel the need to keep up with those around us. There’re always newer and more advanced things coming out to spend money on. It’s easy to get caught up in the ways of the world.

I don’t believe God says we can’t have these things and enjoy them, but when they take our focus off of Him, we can be headed down a path that leads us away from Him. Renee writes “…so many times we look to the gifts instead of the Giver to fill us and fulfill us with lasting security and significance.”

Maybe you can relate to this like I can. My attention can be so centered on something or someone other than Christ that I’ve shifted my focus off of Him. When that happens, I start looking to other people or things to fill me. When they can’t fill me, I feel lost and empty.

The shift in focus to the gifts instead of the Giver can happen quickly—often before I even realize it. So, every day I need to make a conscious effort to find my treasure in Him, and there I will find my security.

Have you written any when-then statements that Renee Swope explains on page 60? Come back later this week when I’ll share one or two that I’ve written, and I hope you’ll share yours by leaving a comment. I agree with Renee—they do help!

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Study - Week 2

2011-09-25T04:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome!

If you are studying A Confident Heart by Renee Swope with me, we start slowing it down this week with only one chapter per week. At the end of each week's schedule I'm noting ways to go deeper into the study, if you choose. Melissa Taylor, author and speaker with Proverbs 31 Ministries, is also doing a study on A Confident Heart. Although we are one chapter ahead of her study, I still recommend visiting her blog, if you haven't already.

Speaking of Melissa Taylor, it's been an exciting week for me. Melissa and I have been in contact a few times over the past months. Last week she called to ask if I would consider serving on the Leadership Team for the Proverbs 31 Gather & Grow Bible Study Ministry, for which she is now Coordinator. There are two divisions of the ministry - face-to-face groups and online groups. In addition to leading our online study (and future studies), I will be serving as an adviser to the online groups and working with the Leadership Team to grow and develop the Gather & Grow Online Ministry. What a blessing and honor to have been asked to serve the Lord in this capacity!

Just a note...I'm now on Twitter, and working on Facebook.

I pray that you are seeing God's work in your life as we read A Confident Heart! Have a great week!

In Christ,

Laura

Week 2 – Sept. 25-Oct. 1, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 3 “Finding Love That Won’t Fail Even When I Do.” Remember to underline or take notes on anything you want to remember and go back to.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at http://www.laurarath.blogspot.com/ for the weekly post, and leave a comment.

Wednesday & Thursday

Reflect on, and answer, the Discussion Questions at the end of the chapter.

Friday

Spend some time in prayer and reflecting on this week’s reading.

To Go Deeper:

Visit author Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart. Consider printing the Doubt Index Analysis to identify your most common doubts.
Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog.

Believing God

2011-09-20T04:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome! If you are joining me in the online study of A Confident Heart by Renee Swope, I’m glad you’re here. If you are not participating in the study, I still welcome you to look around my blog. Read what interests you and stay as long as you like. I hope you’ll return!

In Chapter 1 of A Confident Heart, author Renee Swope says, “He’s led me beyond believing in Him to really believing Him by relying on the power of His words and living like they are true no matter what my feelings tell me.”

It was as I read this a second time that it clicked, and I realized what a difference this makes. As I grow closer to God, I don’t just believe in Him, but I believe His Word and promises as truth. I know that I can rely on what He says, and that’s how I find my confidence and identity in Him.

Jeremiah 17:5, 7 (NLT) says…

“This is what the Lord says: ‘Cursed are those who put their trust in mere humans, who rely on human strength and turn their hearts away from the Lord. But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.’”

When I look to find my confidence and security in myself and others, I set myself up for failure because it’s based on something that’s ever changing. My mood changes based on my feelings and situations I’m going through. Someone may hurt my feelings, or I may feel confident one moment, but by later in the day feel insecure about myself and what I’m doing. The way I act and react depends on how I’m feeling at the time, what mood I’m in, how stressed out I may be, and a host of other things going on around me. As humans, this is how we are, so how can I base my security on myself and others?

However, when I believe God—when I put my hope and trust in Him—I am changed. I look for my security and confidence in Him, and that keeps me grounded. Christ is the Rock, the Foundation. When I find my security in Him, I know He won’t change His mind about me. The Lord is unchanging. (Malachi 3:6a NLT) He’s the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. His love is never ending. While people will disappoint us and often leave us, God never will. Nothing can separate us from His love. (Romans 8:38-39 NLT)

Some days are harder than others. I fall back into relying on myself and what others think of me. I have to make an effort to silence my own thoughts and listen to God. The more I make the effort, the more natural it becomes to seek God. The more I seek Him, the more I want to hear from Him. And the more I hear from Him, the more I want to silence my own thoughts so when He whispers to me, I will hear Him.

In Christ,

Laura

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 1

2011-09-18T04:30:00.000-05:00

Welcome! If you are studying Renee Swope's A Confident Heart, I'm so glad to have you join me!

Below is the suggested reading schedule for this week. I plan to post on Tuesday with my thoughts on the reading. Please consider posting a comment with your thoughts or on how God is working in your life.

My prayer is that you will enjoy A Confident Heart, and that this study will be a blessing in your life.

In Christ,
Laura

Week 1 – Sept. 18-24, 2011

As you read each chapter, underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. I also suggest having a journal or notebook for notes and for the Reflection and Discussion Questions at the end of each chapter.

Monday &Tuesday

Read Chapter 1 “Discovering the Shadow of My Doubts” and reflect on the questions at the end of the chapter.

Tuesday

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the weekly post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading. (Remember, you can do so anonymously, if you choose.)

Wednesday &Thursday

Read Chapter 2 “Because God’s Love is Perfect, I Don’t Have to Be” and reflect on the end of the chapter questions.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading. This day can also be used as a catch-up day if you got behind with the reading or questions.

To Go Deeper:

Visit Melissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog. She's also hosting a study on the book.
Visit author Renee Swope’s Website where she has free resources to accompany A Confident Heart.

The Enemy Lies

2011-09-07T21:47:00.000-05:00

Have you ever been remindedhow easily the enemy can slip in and change our thoughts to his way ofthinking?

Not long ago I was remindedof this very thing.

I was upset and angry with aloved one, and I wasn’t even trying to shake it off. My feelings had been hurtand I was frustrated. As I worked around the kitchen, I silently fumed, “I’m sotired of this! Why isn’t God doing something!? Does He even care?!?”

I stopped cold. Where didthat thought come from? I know God cares! Absolutely I know He cares. So, howcould I even think to question it?

I have to tell you, it scaredme. It frightened me that in my state of frustrated venting I could questionGod’s concern for me, the other person, and the situation.

Immediately I knew the enemywas at work trying to get me to believe his lies. I stopped what I was doingand prayed. How easy it could have been for me to get caught up in my anger andlet that thought fester inside. My hurt and frustration could have grown, notonly against the other person, but against God.

Lies.

Our enemy Satan is the fatherof lies (John 8:44), and he wants us to believe his lies as truth. He looks forany opportunity to slip his lies into our thoughts, and he smiles when webelieve them. He knows where we question our relationships and how we doubtourselves. He knows our insecurities and he uses them against us.

The closer we grow to God,the harder the enemy will work to block our way. He wants us to doubt ourselves,and especially God’s love for us.

But this is what God says inIsaiah 43:1-4 (The Message)…

“…‘Don't be afraid, I'veredeemed you.

I've called your name. You're mine.
When you're in over your head, I'll be there with you.
When you're in rough waters, you will not go down.
When you're between a rock and a hard place,

it won't be a dead end—
Because I am God, your personal God,

The Holy of Israel, your Savior.
I paid a huge price for you: all of Egypt,

with rich Cush and Sebathrown in!
That's how much you mean to me!

That's how much I love you!'"

God loves us and promises Hewill never leave us. (Deuteronomy 31:6, 8 NIV) That is why we must remain in God’s Word. The morewe know by heart the truth and promises in God’s Word, the better we will be ableto detect the enemy’s lies.

Last week I read a post onMelissa Taylor’s (Proverbs 31 Ministries) blog. It was exactly what I needed toread that day, and in fact, I went back to read it multiple times throughoutthe week. If you haven’t read it, I encourage you to do so. I Knowand Yet...I Still Doubt, by Melissa Taylor

I hope you’ll join me when webegin our online study of Renee Swope’s new book AConfident Heart on September 18. To sign up, send me an e-mail at laurajrath@gmail.com with your name,e-mail address, city and state.

In Christ,

Laura

Witnessing

2011-08-26T07:40:00.002-05:00

What does it mean to you to be a witness of your Christian faith? As I read the last chapter of Rachel Olsen’s It’s No Secret I remembered what I used to think of when I heard of someone witnessing.

Flash back to one morning in college… It wasn’t yet 8:00 in the morning, and I was on my way to stop for coffee before getting to class. I encountered a man standing in my path waving a miniature sized New Testament Bible, yelling something about my going to hell. (See, if I’d already had coffee I might remember what he said.) But it didn’t matter. His approach was so offensive, he could’ve told me my hair was on fire and I wouldn’t have listened.

So, whenever someone said I should be a witness, I immediately thought there was no way I could stand on a corner somewhere yelling about Jesus. However, I’ve since learned that’s not what witnessing means.

From my NLT Study Bible…

witness, – a person who gives testimony (NLT Study Bible Dictionary/Concordance)

testify – to make a statement based on personal knowledge or belief; to give evidence or proof (NLT Study Bible Dictionary/Concordance)

Witnessing is telling what I know to be true. I know that Jesus Christ was crucified, died on the cross and buried; He conquered death when he rose from the grave. I know what Jesus has done in my life and how He continues to be with me daily. And I know that His life-saving grace is for everyone.

That’s how I can witness. I know I don’t always have the perfect words to say, but God uses them anyway. God will give us the confidence to speak boldly about His Son, Jesus, and then He does the work in the other person, and in us.

If you’ve been studying It’s No Secret by Rachel Olsen with me, thank you for joining me in this journey. I pray it’s been a blessing in your life.

In Christ,

Laura

Wisdom and Faith

2011-08-22T05:00:00.003-05:00

wisdom (n) – knowledge, insight, judgment (NLT Study Bible Dictionary/Concordance)

This week’s reading in our study of It’s No Secret by Rachel Olsen starts with Chapter 11 about wisdom. Tucked into one of the Bible study questions at the end of the chapter is to read James 1:5.

James 1:5 (NLT)

“If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking.”

I continued to read…

James 1:6-8 (NLT)

“But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.”

I also like how The Message reads…

James 1:5-8 (MSG)

“If you don't know what you're doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You'll get his help, and won't be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who "worry their prayers" are like wind-whipped waves. Don't think you're going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open.”

Think about this for a moment. God wants us to come to Him and ask for wisdom. He promises to give it to us, and even says he won’t look down on us for asking. But when we ask, we are to have faith in Him alone. We are not to ask for His opinion among others and then choose the answer we like best.

How often have I asked God for wisdom…

-but then took matters into my own hands?

-or acted out of emotion instead of wisdom?

-or thought, “I still don’t know what to do?”

Has this ever happened to you? Someone asks you for help or advice. Maybe it’s a family member or a co-worker. You take time to listen to what that person needs and then give the help or advice asked for. But when you finish, you find out the person is not going to take your advice, but do it the way she’d planned to all along. I’ve had this happen to me and it’s more than a little annoying. It makes me not want to give my time if asked again.

I wonder if God ever feels that way. Do I give Him reason to think, “Why are you asking me when you choose to go your own way?”

I’m afraid the answer is too often yes.

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret Study - Week 6

2011-08-21T04:55:00.007-05:00

It's hard to believe this is the last week in our study of It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen. What did you think? Did you like the book? What will stay with you after our study ends?

Please share your thoughts by posting a comment. I'd love to hear how God has blessed you through this study!

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 6 – Aug. 21- Aug. 27, 2011

As you read each chapter, underline, highlight, or take notes on any points you want to remember.

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 11 “Diversify Your Portfolio: Revealing the Secret of True Security.” Complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 12 “Become a Recording Artist: Revealing the Secret of Disclosure” and complete the Bible Study.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Friday

Read the Epilogue and catch up on the week’s reading, if you need to.
Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading.

Confession and Forgiveness

2011-08-18T18:50:00.000-05:00

I apologize for posting late this week! If you’re studying Rachel Olsen’s It’s No Secret with me, I’ve been reading Chapter 10 about confessing our sins.

“For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.” Jeremiah 31:34b (NIV)

I love this verse! God promises us in His Word that when we confess our sins to Him, we are washed clean by the blood of His Son, Jesus. He doesn’t remind us what we’ve done; He doesn’t keep score, or hold it over our heads. No, God forgives…and He chooses to remember our sins no more.

I have no reason not to confess my sins to God. He already knows them. He knows how my sins eat away at me. He knows the baggage of guilt and remorse I carry with me. He knows how my sinful ways separate me from Him.

God wants us to come to Him and lay our sins at the foot of the cross so He can restore our relationship with Him. He knows our hearts and wants to hear our confession.

“For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”

Our loving God forgives, and He allows us to start fresh with Him…every day…every hour.

To God be the Glory!

Laura

Physical and Spiritual Rest

2011-08-15T19:06:00.000-05:00

Everything seems worse when you’re tired. Anyone agree?

In chapter nine of It’s No Secret, author Rachel Olsen talks about rest. Our bodies need physical rest, whether it’s getting to bed on time, sleeping in, or taking an occasional nap. When sleep is in short supply, it affects everything from my personality, to my relationships, to what I do and don’t accomplish. My energy level is low, my concentration is lacking, and my patience is non-existent.

But have you ever felt like you’re caught up on sleep and something is still missing? Something you can’t quite put your finger on?

I’ve been learning the importance of spiritual rest—personal quiet time spent with God. Time when I set everything else aside and focus on talking to and hearing from God.

If you’re thinking you don’t have time to fit something else into your schedule, I hear you. There are plenty of days I tell myself I don’t have time, or I’ll get to it later. Sometimes I get to it, but sometimes I don’t.

I work at a church where all staff members are encouraged to make time for personal devotions. At first it felt like something else I had to do. But isn’t that the way it is with any new discipline?

As I got used to making time for God, it went from something I knew I should do, to something I wanted to do. I see a difference in the days I spend one-on-one time with God. It might be that life doesn’t seem quite so difficult or that it’s easier to see the blessings in my life. Sometimes it’s an adjustment in my attitude or the ability to view a situation from a different perspective. Other times still, it’s a calm or peaceful feeling that on my own I don’t have; I know it’s from God.

Now that I’ve experienced the blessings of personal time with God, I know the difference in the days I don’t spend time with Him. On those days there is an emptiness to my day and an emptiness in me, one that can only be filled by God and my connection with Him.

Everything seems worse when we’re tired—physically and spiritually. God knows we need both physical rest and spiritual rest…and when we rely on Him, I believe He gives us both.

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret Study - Week 5

2011-08-14T04:07:00.030-05:00

Welcome to week 5! How are you doing with our study of It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen? Below you will find this week's reading schedule.

God bless your week,
Laura

Week 5 – Aug. 14- Aug. 20, 2011

As you read each chapter, underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. You may also want to take notes in your book or a journal.

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 9 “Turn the Beat Around: Revealing the Secret of Rest.” Complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 10 “Crave a Clear Conscience More than Clear Skin: Revealing the Secret Beauty of Confessing Sins” and complete the Bible Study.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading. This day can also be used to catch up on the reading if you got behind.

Asking for and Accepting Help

2011-08-10T04:45:00.003-05:00

Can I see a show of hands…was anyone besides me convicted by chapter 8 “Get By With a Little Help from Your Friends?” No? I was afraid of that.

Author Rachel Olsen listed reasons she doesn’t ask for help—pride, fear, insecurity, self-reliance, perfectionism, busyness, and selfishness. I can relate to all of them.

There is one time in particular that stands out in my mind. When my daughter was an infant, she cried. A lot. I was a new mom, inexperienced, and extremely overtired. I desperately needed help. I see that now, but I didn’t see it then. Even if I had seen it, I wouldn’t have accepted it. In fact, I didn’t.

Shortly after she was born, I received a call from a woman at our church. I didn’t know her very well, but I knew who she was and liked her. We talked for a few minutes and she asked if she could come over to help me. She offered to vacuum.

I thought it was odd. I’d never had an offer like this before and it made me uncomfortable. I politely turned her down.

It was years later when I wondered why I didn’t let her come over. Why didn’t I say no thank you to the vacuuming, but ask her if she would care for the baby for an hour while I took a nap? Or why didn’t I just invite her over for someone to talk to? I don’t think she had an overwhelming desire to clean. I think she would have been happy to help in any way I needed.

As I kicked myself for not accepting her help, I wondered if I could have relaxed enough to appreciate or enjoy it. The answer is no, I don’t think I could have. I would have cleaned before she came over. I would have made sure my daughter was dressed appropriately and looked adorable. I might have even figured out a snack to offer. I would have tried to host instead of accept the help she was offering, and I would have been on edge the entire visit.

Would it be different today? I think so…I hope so…I don’t know. Here’s why…

In this same chapter, Rachel writes, “…how many times do we find ourselves hanging dangerously off the side of some problem or the edge of some sin…searching on our own for a way down? Meanwhile, there is a Sisterhood nearby equipped by God to help.”

My immediate thought was, “not that often”…and then I hung my head. Apparently I have an issue with denial as well as accepting help.

In Christ,

Laura

Chapter 7 - Adjust your Scale

2011-08-08T09:50:00.001-05:00

I’m going to be honest with you…I’ve been trying to write something for today’s blog. I’ve read chapter 7 “Adjust your Scale” and had an idea of what to write about. I even got a few thoughts on paper, but they didn’t go anywhere.

This week I’m taking a few days off from work to relax before the school year starts (next week!) and schedules get busier, but instead I’ve been stuck with writer’s block for two days. So, instead of stressing myself out (more than I already have), I’m going to leave you with links to two posts on author Rachel Olsen’s blog from April 2011:

Are You Performance Based? - Rachel Olsen

Kick Perfectionism to the Curb - Rachel Olsen

Have a great week!

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret Study - Week 4

2011-08-07T04:00:00.009-05:00

It's hard to believe we are already beginning week 4 of our study of Rachel Olsen's It's No Secret! I hope you are enjoying the book as much as I am.

Have a great week!

In Christ,
Laura

Week 4 – Aug. 7- Aug. 13, 2011
As you read each chapter, underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. You may also want to take notes in your book or a journal.

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 7 “Adjust Your Scale: Revealing the Secret of Perfection in God’s Eyes” and complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 8 “Get By with a Little Help from Your Friends: Revealing the Secret of Interdependence” and complete the Bible Study.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading. This day can also be used to catch up on the reading if you got behind.

Growth through Trials

2011-08-03T21:11:00.000-05:00

I have to tell you…“Don’t Be Afraid in the Dark” (chapter 6) is my favorite chapter in Rachel Olsen’s book, It’s No Secret. Each time I read it I think about the trials in my life that have brought me closer to God. Through each trial, the pain and struggle could have turned me away from God. Instead I clung to Him—for dear life. And each time He has brought me through with a stronger faith in Him.

Unfortunately, that is not true for everyone. Perhaps you know of someone who has been hardened by life. Someone who is sure their pain is worse than anyone else’s and that God can no longer help them.

I’ve seen a person that broken. I’ve heard the words, “Jesus can’t help me now.” It was heartbreaking. I wish I’d known what to say, but I was inexperienced in sharing the love and saving grace of Jesus Christ. I did my best, and prayed that God would plant and water the seed of faith in his heart. To this day, I don’t know if he turned back to Jesus, but I keep praying.

Trials can harden us. Maybe we blame God. Maybe we don’t see Him taking away the pain. Maybe we think He’s punishing us. And we turn away from God, plunging ourselves deeper into the darkness.

There have been times in my life when I felt so deep in the darkness I couldn’t see or hear God. I couldn’t feel Him, yet I knew He was there. And I knew He would let me see Him and lift me up when He was ready.

What I’ve discovered is through each trial my faith grows. My confidence that I will see the hand of God in my life is strengthened. I know now to wait and look for God’s whisper that comforts me and says, “I’m here.” Maybe it’s His peace that allows me to rest when I’ve been too upset to sleep. Maybe it’s a gentle feeling inside when I read a Scripture verse. Maybe it’s the call from a friend at the exact moment God knew I needed it the most.

He’s there with us through our trials when the pain seems more than we can bear. Will He take away the pain? I don’t know. I think sometimes He knows I need time to be sad, and He allows that. But I do know He promises He will never leave us. (Deuteronomy 31:8) He walks through the trials with us—step by step—if we let Him.

I pray you let Jesus walk with you through your trials. Let Him comfort you. See how He whispers to you. And let Him draw you closer to Him.

In Christ,

Laura

Living Generously

2011-08-01T04:30:00.005-05:00

In Chapter 5 of Rachel Olsen’s book, It’s No Secret, she talks about living generously. I have to admit that I sometimes struggle with this. I don’t consider myself obsessed with money and things, but yes, I do fret about finances and making ends meet.

I think about things like long term giving. For instance, when trying to make a commitment to give, I wonder if I’m leaving enough to cover the bills and extra expenses. What if something happens like loss of a job, an illness, or an injury? I trust God to provide, but I’m finding again that I have room to grow in this area.

A different question comes to mind and I wonder if you would chime in with your thoughts…How do we teach our children and grandchildren to live generously, while at the same time to be cautious and careful of organizations and individuals who are less-than-trustworthy?

Click below to leave your comment…

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret Study - Week 3

2011-07-31T04:00:00.002-05:00

If you are reading Rachel Olsen's It's No Secret with me...welcome to week 3 of our study.

Have a blessed week,
Laura

Week 3 – July 31- Aug. 6, 2011

As you read each chapter, take notes or mark any parts in your book you want to remember.

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 5 “Have Eyes Bigger Than Your Stomach: Revealing the Secret of Living Generously” and complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post and leave a comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 6 “Don’t Be Afraid in the Dark: Revealing the Secret of Growth through Trials” and complete the Bible Study.

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week's reading. This day can also be used to catch up on the reading if you got behind.

Pride vs. Humility

2011-07-25T04:00:00.001-05:00

As I read chapter 3 on pride and humility in Rachel Olsen’s It’s No Secret, I could hear the narrator’s voice in my head saying this line from the Veggie Tales movie, Esther. The movie and the line “pride comes before a fall” are forever linked in my memory. If you haven’t seen the movie, it’s a less violent version of the Old Testament book of Esther.

I have to confess that for years, I thought “pride comes before a fall” was in the book of Esther. It’s actually in the book of Proverbs. I never looked it up—until a few days ago when I read chapter 3 and thought about the movie. That led me down a road of interesting research, a few bits of which I’d like to share with you in today’s blog.

The book of Proverbs has quite a bit to say about pride. I find the different Bible translations interesting.

Proverbs 16:18

NIV - “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”

The Message - “First pride, then the crash— the bigger the ego, the harder the fall.”

Proverbs 11:2

NIV - “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”

NLT - “Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”

The Message – “The stuck-up fall flat on their faces, but down-to-earth people stand firm.”

Proverbs 13:10

NLT – “Pride leads to conflict; those who take advice are wise.”

NIV – “Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.”

The Message – “Arrogant know-it-alls stir up discord, but wise men and women listen to each other's counsel.”

Pride keeps my focus on myself, while humility takes my focus off of myself. Humility is thinking less about myself, not to be confused with thinking less of myself. Humility is thinking about God and others more than I think about myself.

I really like what my NLT Study Bible has to say on pride and humility…

“Humility is demonstrated when a person recognizes a mistake, listens to another’s correction, and learns life’s lessons. It is hard for the proud to accept this discipline. Pride puts self first and does not allow the cracks and flaws to show in public. However, truly humble people acknowledge that others have something to teach them about life.” (NLT Study Bible, © 2008 Tyndale House Publishers)

What are your thoughts on pride and humility? Was there something you learned in this chapter or through your own research that you’ll share with us?

In case you’re wondering what happened that day with me and the Esther movie…I dug out our old VHS tape. I wanted to watch it and my daughter asked if she could watch it with me. I like that she’s still young enough to think it was fun and not roll her eyes at me. J

Please post your comments by clicking below…

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret Study - Week 2

2011-07-24T04:00:00.006-05:00

Welcome to week 2 of our study on It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen. I pray you are enjoying the book as much as I am.

Below you will find this week's reading schedule.

Have a blessed week,

Laura

Week 2 – July 24- July 30, 2011

As you read each chapter, underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. You may also want to take notes in your book or a journal.

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 3 “Kill your Competition: Revealing the Secret Power of Humility” and complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 4 “Keep a Heavenly Lawyer on Retainer: Revealing the Secret to Handling Conflicts Biblically” and complete the Bible Study.
Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post. Leave a comment to the post with your thoughts from the reading.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading. This day can also be used to catch up on the reading if you got behind.

The Blessings are Greater Than the Cost

2011-07-20T09:00:00.000-05:00

Earlier this week I wrote about responding to God—inviting Him into my daily life, meeting Him there, and spending time with Him. So, as I read about the cost of following Christ in chapter 2 of Rachel Olsen’s It’s No Secret, I thought about the blessings versus the cost of anything I give up to spend time with God.

5:00–6:00 a.m. This used to be my favorite time of day to spend with God. The house is quiet, I have time to myself, and usually my mind isn’t already cluttered with details of the day. The problem is two other things compete for that time slot in my day—exercise and sleep.

I decided it was time to discipline myself to find other quiet times of the day to be in God’s Word—times when I could go off by myself, even with others at home, and tune out anything and anyone trying to get my attention. Sometimes that involves scheduling time, or giving up a leisure activity such as reading fiction or watching a television program.

In time it got easier. I learned to put the stress and frustration of the day aside and focus on God. I learned to recognize when I need to take 10 minutes at that very moment to stop and pray or to read Scripture. Discipline became desire—on the days I don’t make time to spend with God, I miss it. I can tell a big difference in my attitude, my reactions, and how I’m feeling.

The blessings have outweighed the cost of anything I gave up to change my schedule. But there is one blessing I never imagined—the change in my daughter. While I used to spend more time studying God’s Word before she was awake in the morning, I was now spending more time when she was a witness to it. As she saw me reading and studying my Bible, I saw her doing the same. Sometimes she would read on her own and come to me with questions. Other times she would ask if she could get her Bible and join me wherever I happened to be studying. It was an unexpected result and a wonderful blessing to see her want to spend time with God!

What is God asking of us today? Will we follow though or will we resist His lead? Whatever we give up for our relationship with God, it is worth it. We get back so much more than we give!

In Christ,

Laura

How Do I Respond?

2011-07-18T04:00:00.003-05:00

If you’re reading Rachel Olsen’s It’s No Secret with me, Welcome! We are in the first week of our online study.

As I read the Introduction and Chapter 1 of It’s No Secret, I thought about how I respond to God. Do I talk to Him only when I think I need to, or do I spend time with Him wanting to get to know Him better?

I would say the first of these two choices used to be true. I knew God was there and I turned to Him nightly for prayers, in times of trouble, and for the occasional thank you.

However, that’s not the case now, and I know when it changed. Almost 11 years ago my daughter was born, and she cried for the first five weeks of her life. No, not constantly, although it sure felt that way. I was overtired, rarely accepted help from others, and felt incredibly alone. Out of complete desperation, I turned to God and clung to Him. He used that low point in my life to draw me close and He didn’t let go.

Slowly, but steadily, I started out on my faith journey and I began to get to know Jesus in a way I had never experienced before—as a friend and a constant companion. Jesus knows what it’s like to walk this side of Heaven. He knows it’s not easy. He knows the temptations and the rejection from others. He knows the loneliness and the sadness. And He promises to walk with us.

As I started to understand this, I wanted to know more. I wanted to spend more time in God’s Word, and as I spent more time in the Bible, God showed me more of Him and of His Son, Jesus.

I never used to understand how if I read the same verse in the Bible over and over I could still learn something new. But as I’ve grown in my faith I believe God opens up His Word to us, and as we’re ready, He gives us more understanding. I believe it because I’ve experienced it. What used to be just words I was reading started to have meaning, and I was beginning to understand them. As I spend time with Jesus, He shows me more of Himself and draws me closer to Him. And the more I get to know Him, the more time I want to spend with Him.

I love how author Rachel Olsen says this in the Introduction of It’s No Secret…

“…befriending Jesus—drawing close to Him over time—develops our ability to recognize His still, small voice. Our heart grows familiar with and closer to His, enabling us to understand His meaning when that used to float right over our heads.”

How true this is! I’m constantly amazed at what I learn from God’s Word now, and I wonder how I’ve missed it for so long. I’m in awe of how God draws me to the Scripture verse I need when I need it, and through that verse I find the comfort and direction I’ve been craving.

My prayer is that wherever you are on your faith journey, you feel the Lord draw you closer into a relationship with Him.

What captured your attention in the Intro and Chapter 1? Will you share it with us by posting a comment?

If you’d like to read more from author Rachel Olsen about spending time in God’s Word, here’s the link to a blog she posted on March 29, 2011. Rachel Olsen – Step One: Show

In Christ,

Laura

It's No Secret - Week 1

2011-07-17T04:00:00.003-05:00

Welcome! If you are reading and studying It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen with me, the reading schedule for the first week is listed below.

If you are not yet involved in the study but would like more information on the book or the online study, click here: It's No Secret.

Have a blessed week,
Laura

Week 1 – July 17- July 23, 2011

As you read each chapter, underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. You may also want to take notes in your book or purchase a journal to use for this study.

Monday & Tuesday

Read the Introduction "Can I Tell You a Secret?" and Chapter 1 "Always RSVP: Revealing the Secret to Responding to God" and complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.
Visit Laura's blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment with your thoughts on the reading.

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 2 "Know When to Pay Retail: Revealing the Secret Cost of Following Christ" and complete the Bible Study.
Visit Laura's blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post and leave a comment.

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week's reading.

It's No Secret - Begins Sunday

2011-07-14T12:22:00.000-05:00

As we get ready to begin our online study of It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen on Sunday, July 17, I want to let you know about BibleGateway.com. On this site you can search for Scripture in different versions of the Bible. So, if you don't have a Bible, or if you want to compare how a verse reads in two or more versions, you can do so here.

If you've signed up for the study by e-mailing me at laurajrath@gmail.com, you will receive an e-mail each Sunday with the suggested reading schedule. The schedule will also be posted on my blog. Remember, it's a suggested schedule, meaning you are free to work at your own pace. I plan to post on Monday and Wednesday each week with my thoughts on the reading, but I also ask for your grace and forgiveness if I'm late in posting. Life (and writer's block) sometimes get in the way of best laid plans.

I encourage everyone to comment to the blog posts with your thoughts on the reading and how you see God working in your life.

To post a comment:
Click on the word "comments" at the end of the post.
In the new screen, type in your comment and choose an identity - Name (skip URL) or Anonymous.
Click Preview to see how your comment will look, then click Publish.

If you haven't signed up yet, it's not too late. Just send me an e-mail at laurajrath@gmail.com with your name, e-mail address, city, and state.

Until Sunday...

God Bless,
Laura

It's No Secret - Online Bible Study Starting Soon

2011-07-06T21:36:00.000-05:00

Our 6-week online study of It's No Secret: Revealing Divine Truths Every Woman Should Know by Rachel Olsen is set to begin on July 17. Each online study I host on my blog is an opportunity for women who want to grow in God's Word and communicate with other women in the study, but with the luxury of being on your own schedule.

If you have never participated in an online study before, here are just a few positives...

No meeting commitments.
No dress code - PJs are perfectly acceptable!
You set your schedule. As we work through the book, I will post a suggested reading schedule to keep us on track and going through the same chapters at the same time. However, it's up to you when you read or comment to a blog.
Non-denominational. Open to all women, no matter where you live, or what your church background may be.

Our first online study was on Lysa TerKeurst's What Happens When Women Say Yes to God. Our group consisted of 25 women from 4 states. It was amazing to watch as God brought us together!

For more information or to sign up for the It's No Secret study beginning on July 17, click here: It's No Secret.

If you've had an experience in an online study you'd like to share, I encourage you to leave a comment to this post.

In Christ,
Laura

Our Study Ends, but Our Journey with God Continues

2011-06-29T04:45:00.004-05:00

Chapters 8 and 9 complete our study of Lysa TerKeurst’s What Happens When Women Say Yes to God.

For me, the past weeks have been emotional, eye-opening, soul-searching, and exciting. I’ve spent time in thought and prayer on how to apply what I’ve read to my life. There is so much from this book I want to absorb and remember, but I don’t think one read-through is enough. After a period of time I want to read and study it again. I wonder if I’ll have the same a-ha moments or be struck with new ones.

If you read and studied this book with me I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did and heard God speaking to you.

If you are still working through the book, I encourage you to continue. You will still be able to access the blog posts at your leisure by clicking on the What Happens When Women Say Yes to God label on the right hand side of my blog.

As always, I would love to hear your thoughts...

In Christ,
Laura

God Uses Even the Mundane

2011-06-27T05:00:00.005-05:00

Once again author Lysa TerKeurst prompted me to think more about something I hadn’t thought much about before.

In Chapter 7 of What Happens When Women Say Yes to God she tells the story from Luke 5:1-11. After a night of fishing, and catching nothing, Jesus tells Simon Peter to go out and try again. Because the directive came from Jesus, Simon Peter does go out and lets the nets down again. This time so many fish are caught help is needed to bring them all in.

I love what Lysa writes after telling the story…

“We have to remember that Simon Peter didn’t know that something as mundane as lowering his net into the water would change his life—but it did! And that’s how it can be for us.” (Lysa TerKeurst, What Happens When Women Say Yes to God)

I don’t know about you, but as a wife and mother I sometimes feel like I do the same things over, and over, and over…laundry…cleaning…grocery shopping…having the same conversation about why the answer is no…you get the idea. Even in my work in church ministry there are tasks that seem mundane.

So the thought that God might use my ordinary everyday acts to change my life or the life of another—that’s exciting! It makes everyday seem like a possible adventure.

Only God knows when a change will occur, and if the change will be visible in my life or someone else’s life. I may never see how God used me, but just to have God work on me, or through me...either way is a privilege.

And suddenly it makes the mundane seem not so ordinary anymore.

In Christ,
Laura

What Happens When Women Say Yes to God - Week 4

2011-06-26T00:01:00.017-05:00

Wow! It’s the last week of our study already! Below you will find the reading schedule for this week, including an extra chapter to finish the book.

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,

Laura

Week 4 June 26-July 2, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 7 “Keeping Our Vision Clear” and complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter. Underline or highlight in your book any points you want to remember.

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post, and comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Something to remember from Chapter 7: “Our life will follow where we focus our vision.”

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 8 “Giving Up What Was Never Ours.” Take notes or highlight in your book any points you want to remember. Complete the Bible Study at the end of Chapter 8.

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post and share your thoughts by leaving a comment.

Something to remember from Chapter 8: "We are managers, not owners, of God's resources."

Friday & Saturday

Read Chapter 9 “Radically Blessed.” Underline, highlight, or take notes of any points to remember.

Complete the Bible Study at the end of Chapter 9. Which of these verses speak the most to you after having read this book?

Something to remember from Chapter 9: “The blessings of radical obedience are unending.”

Perspective

2011-06-22T15:45:00.001-05:00

I’ve been thinking about perspective lately and how it causes me to react in different situations. After reading Chapter 6 in What Happens When Women Say Yes to God, I was reminded again how Satan can use our perspective and reactions against us.

I'm keeping my thoughts short and sweet today and opening the blog up to you. In a word or a sentence, what is this book encouraging you to think about more than you have before? Or simply comment to say whether or not you like the book. (If you are new to commenting, see the step-by-step at the end of this post.)

perspective – a way of regarding situations and judging their relative importance (World English Dictionary, www.dictionary.com)

There have been times in my life when I have been so deeply involved in a situation that I can only see it from one perspective—my own. My perspective is shaped by what I see happening right then, by past experiences, and by my emotions. No matter where I look it’s all I can see. From my perspective, a situation can seem hopeless.

God has a bigger and better perspective on every situation. Our all-knowing Lord weaves the past, present, and future together for the good of those who love Him. (Romans 8:28) God’s perspective is full of hope.

What a blessing that life does not depend on my perspective! What I can see is limited, but what God sees is endless. Even on those days when my perspective has me feeling overwhelmed and stuck in a hopeless situation, I can know and trust without a doubt that God has a plan.

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God Bless,

Laura

What Almost Kept Me From Saying Yes to God

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What Happens When Women Say Yes to God by Lysa TerKeurst — Chapter 5 “What Keeps Us From Saying Yes to God”

What almost kept me from saying yes to God? I lost my focus.

Earlier this year, God laid it on my heart to start an online Bible study. I’d been praying for His guidance, asking Him what I should be doing, and He answered. My mind raced with ideas and possibilities! But the excitement soon turned to uneasiness. I didn’t know how to start, and social media was outside of my comfort zone. I wanted confirmation from others, but didn’t want to tell anyone for fear that I would have to follow through. The more I thought about it, the less I could see a way it would work. I started to doubt it came from God at all, but instead my over-active imagination.

God gave the direction, but I didn’t ask Him how to get there. I quickly grew discouraged and decided I wasn’t going to do it.

I asked God for help, received it, and then told Him no. It’s no wonder I felt like I was no longer hearing from Him. It was not a good place to be in.

I turned to God in prayer and after pouring out my heart to Him, I felt Him tell me, “Focus on Me.”

I thought of when Jesus walked on water and Peter walked toward Him. (Matthew 14:22-33) When Peter’s focus was on Jesus, he could walk on water. But as soon as Peter lost his focus, he began to sink.

It was a clear message that my focus should be on Christ, and not on what was going on around me or what I felt I couldn’t do.

Later that same day I was led to Deuteronomy 31:8: “Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.”

I immediately felt it was God’s instruction to me, not only for the online study, but in other areas of my life as well.

God was guiding and directing me…and still one more incredible thing happened that day.

God led me to an online Bible study though Proverbs 31 Ministries. The study was to begin in four days. Although I was on the Proverbs 31 Web site often, I had not seen anything about the study until the perfect timing of that day. God led me to the study of a book that was a blessing in my life, and He showed me an example of how an online study could work.

What almost kept me from saying yes to God? I took my focus off of Jesus and I started to sink.

So much of this chapter spoke to me! What stood out for you?

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,

Laura

What Happens When Women Say Yes to God – Week 3

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It's hard to believe we are half way through our study already! I hope you are enjoying What Happens When Women Say Yes to God as much as I am. As I read each chapter, I feel like God is really working on me and making changes in my life.

If you are wondering if there will be another study after this one, the answer is YES! We will take a break of a few weeks and then begin It's No Secret by Rachel Olsen. If you would like to continue with the online Bible study, I'd love to have you join us! Exact dates and more information will be coming soon.

In the meantime, here's the What Happens When Women Say Yes to God reading schedule for week 3.

Have a blessed week!

In Christ,

Laura

Week 3 June 19-June 25, 2011

Monday & Tuesday

Read Chapter 5 “What Keeps Us From Saying Yes to God.” Take notes on anything you want to remember in your book or in a journal. Complete the Bible Study at the end of Chapter 5.

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the beginning of the week post. Leave a comment with your thoughts from the reading.

Something to remember from Chapter 5: “Whatever we worship, we will obey.”

Wednesday & Thursday

Read Chapter 6 “If It Were Easy, It Wouldn’t Be Worth Doing,” and take notes. Complete the Bible Study at the end of the chapter.

Visit Laura’s blog at www.laurarath.blogspot.com for the mid-week post, and comment with your thoughts on the chapter.

Something to remember from Chapter 6: “Radical obedience is born out of delight, not duty.”

Friday

Spend some personal time with God and reflect on this week’s reading. Use this day to catch up if you got behind in the reading.

Laura Rath ~ Journey in Faith

Fear of the Lord

He Makes a Way {Something to Think About}

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 9

Jesus is Enough

Lay Your Cares at the Foot of the Cross

Comfort in Our Troubles {Something to Think About}

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 8

Vulnerability and Trust

Fear of What Could Happen

What Have You Done?

An Untroubled Heart Online Study Week 7

I Choose to Trust God

He Gives Me Strength {Something to Think About}

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 6

Trust in God Sustains Me

Scripture for Direction, Fear, Strength, and Comfort

Psalm 5:11-12 {Something to Think About}

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 5

My One Word for 2012 – Trust

God’s Loving Character

New Every Morning {Something to Think About}

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 4

Where Do You Put Your Faith?

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 3

Trust and Peace ~ Isaiah 26:3

Fear

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 2

Joy and Happiness

Teaching Through My Imperfectness {5 Minutes for Faith}

God is Always with Us

An Untroubled Heart Online Study - Week 1

Focus on Jesus {Something to Think About}

My Top Ten Scripture Verses of 2011

Merry Christmas!

God’s Ways Are Not Our Own {5 Minutes for Faith}

Rest {Something to Think About}

Pray for the Future

Pray for Strength

Pray for Acceptance

For Such a Time as This {Something to Think About}

The Woman of God I Want to Be

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 10

I Am Thankful for...

A Confident Heart Online Study - Thanksgiving Week

I Know He’s With Me

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 9

Give Your Worry to God

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 8

Comparisons

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 7

Failing Does Not Mean I’m a Failure

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 6

Controlling Doubt

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 5

Letting Doubt Hold Us Back

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 4

God Has a Plan for Your Life

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 3

When-Then Statements

Where is Your Treasure?

A Confident Heart Study - Week 2

Believing God

A Confident Heart Online Study - Week 1

The Enemy Lies

Witnessing

Wisdom and Faith

It's No Secret Study - Week 6

Confession and Forgiveness

Physical and Spiritual Rest

It's No Secret Study - Week 5

Asking for and Accepting Help

Chapter 7 - Adjust your Scale

It's No Secret Study - Week 4

Growth through Trials

Living Generously

It's No Secret Study - Week 3

More Reading with Rachel Olsen

Pride vs. Humility

It's No Secret Study - Week 2